但法官調閱蕭女與J男的對話紀錄,卻發現蕭女曾抱怨「I feel a little pain in my vagina...and last time I had the same feeling(我覺得陰道有點痛,上次也有同樣的感覺)」,J男則回應「I'm sorry for making your vagina feel pain.I was only trying to make you feel good.I apologies if hurt you.(抱歉讓你的陰道感到疼,我只是想讓你舒服,如果弄痛你,我很抱歉)」等語,法官認為兩人確實有親密的性行為,且雙方往來顯已逾越普通朋友的社交行為。